Wow! Didn't know that this thread would spark much attention. The person I'm talking about happens to be my wife. Sad to say but because of the non-involvement she has shared with me through out the years I started to wonder. Trust is a big deal to meas well. However, if your spouse stops showing interest in you and you can't figure out the logical reasons for that, one would most likely think that their spouse was involved with something else. Whether it's an addiction to pornsites, a secret internet love perhaps or the other many things the internet has to offer. I'm not being a hipocrite because I surf porn once in a while but I'm still interested in my wife and I love to be intimate. I basically told my wife that I could not continue to try and live my life like this with her without affection, love and intimacy. Those are very strong values to me. And if I find some shit, so be it. It would validate my heart. Then I could move on. Been to therapy done that, still didn't work. I would go again.