Truly:
Happy.....Recognizing and fulfilling my potential....in any endeavor or exercise....regardless of "failure" or "success"
Disappointed....the opposite of above, in myself.....or others that I've thought much of. Also, anytime I find myself lacking empathy in judgement or seeing a lack of that in those whom I'd expect more of
On a more macro level, I can also echo K1's thoughts on entitlement attitude. It's the one thing I'd rid from humanity's DNA or habit, depending on where you think it stems from. Though, I think the human being is inherently selfish and has to learn to be good, empathetic, and to be accomplished. Entitlement is quite the unattractive characteristic