friends ask me the same question on a day to day basis. Dont worry about it black, tell them that the gains were from hard work and dedication. I sometimes like to go on the offensive and ask why they have to bring up anabolics to a guy who keeps a strict diet and works hard. As for the wifey, i would try to explain it, i caught some hell from a gf of mine awhile back, the only worry she had was the fictional roid rage. Since i have had no problems with rage whatsoever it would never be a problem, but different people react differently. Tell her you want to keep on builing up your body not just for yourself but also to keep a healthy(yes healthy w/ AAS) lifestyle. Hell you could tell her to compare it to you sitting around on the couch eating twinkies and beer instead. just some helpful advice, but once again, always respect her.